If you’re looking through this site, you probably want to know a little about me and why I’ve chosen to write a blog about granny dating.
It all started a few days before my 50th birthday when I attended the wedding of a friend. My divorce had gone through a couple of months earlier and I was still feeling sorry for myself – until the best man who was exactly half my age started chatting me up! I didn’t take him seriously at first – how could I – but I soon realised he was serious and the following week, we went out on a date. From that moment on, I was hooked.
It was such a breath of fresh air, so exciting and thrilling to be with someone with such a firm, fit body who wanted to be with me so desperately, someone who loved my curves and the fact that I was happy to eat a full meal without moaning about what it might do to my thighs. He loved my confidence. My marriage had descended into sexless monotony many years earlier and I’d assumed my best years were behind me. I was wrong!
Barry, the best man, and I dated for three months. He wanted more but I was ready to move on. I saw women like Demi Moore and Madonna arm in arm with hot guys and realised that granny dating was for me. I felt a bit odd at first, approaching guys who were so much younger, but once I got used to it – and the fact that so many of them were so keen – it was easy.
So many older men let themselves go. They think if they can offer financial security and stability, it’s enough to compensate for the beer belly, and they seem to have forgotten that foreplay isn’t just a formation on the football pitch. Hell, I have my own money, and plenty of security – what was missing was the fun, and that’s what granny dating bought back to me.
Now all my friends, especially the ones who are still stuck in boring marriages, all want to know the details of my sex life. I spent so much time talking about it to so many people, I thought it would just be easier to write it all down so that they could read it whenever they wanted. A few weeks later, this granny dating blog was born.
I now know that there are lots of other women like me who have thought about joining the granny dating world – my friends tell me so all the time – but have no idea how to go about it or what kind of reaction they might get. That’s another reason for this blog. I would have killed for something like this around the time I started dating younger guys – a place to find information, tips and techniques, and a place to share both the triumphs and the tragedies that are all part and parcel of the experience.
If you want to join the thousands of other women for whom granny dating has been a wonderfully positive experience, this blog will help you on your way. Check back for updates and feel free to share any experiences of your own. My young men have reignited a fire I thought had long gone out, and it’s wonderful.
It really is true what they say – you’re only as old as the man that you feel. Right now I feel about 26.:-))